Uncover your Calling.

There are moments when you may have felt a tug deep within, a persistent whisper urging you towards a certain path or purpose. There is a sense that you are completely in sync with what you are doing as if you are Divinely guided and the universe itself is guiding you in a specific direction. This is often referred to as a “calling.” It is an inner resonance with something greater, a purpose that transcends the ordinary. 

Callings are not always loud or even clear. They do not always come with flashing neon signs or are accompanied by a manual with step-by-step instructions. Instead, they often emerge subtly, a still small voice in quiet moments of reflection or during times of upheaval and uncertainty. Sometimes, it is a gentle nudge; other times, it comes crashing into our lives like a tidal wave, demanding immediate attention and obedience.

The journey to discovering our calling is deeply rooted and unique to each of us. It is a journey of self-discovery, peeling away layers of conditioning and societal expectations to reveal the core of our authentic selves. 

So, how do we find our calling?

One of the first steps to finding our calling is to cultivate self-awareness. We have to take the time to reflect on our passions, values, and strengths. There is a reason why we are drawn to specific interests, hobbies, causes, and positions, while others are not. Pay attention to the activities that inspire the most joy and fulfillment and the causes that ignite the fire within. We can uncover clues related to our true purpose by tuning into our innermost desires and inclinations.

If we wish to uncover our calling, self-awareness alone is not going to be enough. We must also be willing to listen to the whispers of our intuition and the signs and synchronicities that arise. We must be willing to quiet the noise and go within, continuing to tune into our inner voice. Meditation, journaling, and spending time in nature are effective practices that enable us to connect with our intuition and inner guidance.

Our calling may not be a single, static destination; it is often a journey of evolution and growth. As we continue to explore and expand our horizons, our callings may continue to evolve (and, yes, there may be more than one). If we embrace the fluidity and initial uncertainty, we can find the freedom to explore new paths and possibilities. 

Exploring our callings is not always smooth or linear. There are often obstacles and setbacks along the way. Rather than seeing these challenges as roadblocks, we can view them as opportunities for growth and learning. Every setback is an opportunity for us to course-correct, refine our vision, and deepen our understanding of ourselves and our purpose.

We must seek support, guidance, and feedback along the way. Surrounding ourselves with mentors, friends, and people who can offer encouragement, wisdom, and different perspectives can be very helpful in expediting the process.

Finding our calling is about aligning our lives with our highest truth and purpose. It is about stepping into the fullest expression of who we are and sharing our unique gifts with the world. Our calling is not just about what we do, it is about who we are—it is the embodiment of qualities such as love, compassion, and authenticity in everything that we do.

Success or sabotage? Trust in the wisdom of your inner voice and listen to your intuition. The universe is always conspiring in your favor.

Is this going to be an incredible day? Remember, the destination is not as important as the journey itself, so enjoy all that this day has to offer.

Pursue your Satisfaction.

In this grand tapestry of human existence, filled with dreams, desires, and aspirations, only one thing remains constant: the pursuit of satisfaction. Even though it is the one thing that truly makes us feel good, that makes us feel the most alive, it is often the thing that alludes us the most. In the insanity of societal expectations and personal ambitions, true satisfaction often seems as elusive as a mirage shimmering on the distant horizon of our accomplishments. Is true satisfaction found at the journey’s end or is it in the journey itself? Is it the destination or the paths that we take in our pursuits?

Satisfaction, at its core, is a deeply personal experience. It transcends merely reaching our goals or fulfilling our desires. It is about finding peace, contentment, and a sense of true purpose in our lives. Yet, we often focus our pursuits on the external markers of success—money, fame, recognition, etc. 

Aristotle said, "Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence." He argued that true satisfaction is intricately tied to the pursuit of happiness, a journey that begins with understanding our desires and motivations. Each of us harbors within ourselves a calling, a purpose that is unique to our individuality. It may not be neatly packaged or readily apparent, but it's there, waiting to be discovered.

Our desires are signposts guiding us toward our true calling. They may feel like fleeting whims or passing fancies, but they are manifestations of our deepest longings. Whether it's a passion for art, a desire for connection, or a yearning for adventure, these desires are the whispers of our soul, beckoning us to embark on a journey of self-discovery and fulfillment. It is, as some would suggest, and I am among them: the reason why we are here.

True satisfaction is not passive; it demands action. It requires us to muster the will and the courage to pursue our dreams relentlessly, despite any challenges or obstacles that may lie in our path. We must take the first step towards what we want, even though the outcome is uncertain and the way is unclear. The road may be shrouded in darkness and it often feels terrifying. But, it is only in the act of moving forward, of actively pursuing our dreams and desires, that we uncover the true essence of satisfaction.

Psychologist Abraham Maslow talked about a hierarchy of needs, with self-actualization—the realization of our potential—at its pinnacle. According to him, true satisfaction can only be achieved when we strive to become the best version of ourselves—when we align our actions with our highest aspirations. That journey of self-actualization is not the destination; it is a continuous process of personal growth and self-discovery.

Here’s the tricky part: the path to true satisfaction is seldom straightforward. It is often fraught with challenges, setbacks, and many moments of doubt. But, it is in those moments of adversity that our true nature is revealed, and our commitment to our desires is tested. It is easy to become discouraged and disillusioned when we face obstacle after obstacle, but true satisfaction requires resilience, perseverance, and faith—an unwavering belief in ourselves.

This is not a solitary pursuit. It is deeply intertwined with our relationships and connections to others. We are social creatures by nature, and our sense of fulfillment and satisfaction is intricately linked to our interactions with those around us. It may be the support of loved ones, the camaraderie of our friends, or the mentorship of our partners/colleagues. Our relationships play a vital role in shaping our journey toward satisfaction.

True satisfaction transcends material trappings. It cannot be bought with wealth or acquired through external validation. We are not going to find it on Amazon or Temu. It will be found in the simple joys of everyday life—a shared laugh with a friend, quiet moments of reflection on the couch, or a sense of accomplishment after overcoming a seemingly impossible challenge. It is about finding meaning and purpose in what may be considered the most mundane of circumstances. It is about appreciating the beauty and perfection in the present moment.

Life is busy. The world often seems crazy. It is very easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Despite the noise and the frantic pace that may surround us, true satisfaction is beckoning us, like a guided light in the darkness, reminding us of our inherent worth and potential. It is attempting to awaken us to the fact that our lives are a journey of self-discovery and self-actualization. It is a quest to uncover the depths of our soul’s dreams and desires.

Success or sabotage? True success is not found in the achievement; it is in the pursuit.

Is this going to be an incredible day? If we align our actions with our deepest desires, we will find meaning, purpose, and satisfaction in the course of the day.

Accept your Birthright.

There are moments in your life when you must choose between societal "facts" and the truth. You will often find that, when you are ready to speak the truth of your dream, many will present you with the "facts" for why you are making a huge mistake. Often, intuition seems to contradict the facts as we know them; we must learn to trust the instinct behind our choices and live as the exception rather than the rule. 

The rich truths of spiritual law are not in the facts but in the stories surrounding them. If you are focusing on the facts, you might be missing the moral of your own story. God truly is present in the details! Examine your own life today. Are you allowing the facts to inhibit you from seeing the truth? Are you allowing the limitations (tribal logic) of society to encourage you to live below your potential? If so, who and what are you serving? Some profess that the greatest of all sins is denying your gifts and talents from yourself and the world.

Success or sabotage? Success is born and achieved in the heart; don't allow the collective consciousness to convince you to play small in a world that is comforted by the illusion of limitation. You are a child of God. If you are not living like it, you are denying your birthright--unlimited power and potential.

Is this going to be an incredible day? Step fearlessly into a day that, in some way, was designed just for you.

Define your Calling.

What is your revolution? For what are you willing to stand in the discomfort of the opposition for the sake of your truth? The true warrior stands in the truth of his/her being, with a knowing that does not require the destruction or elimination of others. Wisdom and the folly of the youthful ego cannot occupy the same body; the maturity of truth invites one to surrender childhood fears and step into true power. It is only in the moment that you are willing to define your calling that your life begins to take shape with intrinsic meaning.

What is the question for which you are the answer? What is the answer that is in need of your question to bring the world to its attention? Only when you realize that you are both of these things can you truly appreciate the paradox that resides in the deepest yearnings of your soul.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life. The revolution will not be televised. What can you do today to make this world a better place? The world can no longer afford your complacency or your patience.

Success or sabotage? Success requires the commitment of the strong, those willing to be warriors rather than soldiers.

Is this going to be an incredible day? Live a life less ordinary--consciously create something that will serve you and others TODAY.

Awaken to Potential.

Your life is a message unto yourself. There is a reason for your existence and your life is constantly urging you to awaken to your full potential. We all have a calling (perhaps several), but it is not until we are completely conscious that we are able to see it. There are moments when you begin to feel like the entire world is in a conspiracy to lead you in a specific direction. Perhaps, the world is a beacon shining the light on the way. There are no accidents. There is no such thing as coincidence. The question is, do you resist the guidance of the universe when it is outside of your comfort zone?

What are the patterns in your life? If you were a detective assigned to explore the evidence that is you, what clues are worthy of investigation? What are the possible meanings and messages hidden in your daily life? Don't make your objective a conclusion; simply open the door to possibility. When you conclude, you might be closing the door to greater possibility and resisting the natural flow. Often, it is not the "thing" we believe to be the answer, but it is something along the path in that direction. Therefore, we must trust our inner guidance and enter the darkness, knowing that the light will appear. 

Success or sabotage? Do you allow your perceptions, knowledge, and expectations to inhibit your success? Are you willing to stay open to the possibility that you are "wrong" in your assumptions?

Is this going to be an incredible day? Are you open to the possibility?

Explore your Calling.

Consciousness is the plane on which our lives are created. If we conclude that something is impossible for us, then it shall be so. In order to make the impossible possible, we must reach a point of knowing that resonates with our very being (in the “gut”). We must be willing to reject the “good opinion” of others, disregard tribal logic and be the exception rather than the rule.

Living below our power and potential does not serve us or the world. Sometimes it is important to stop moving long enough to be truly introspective. Routine self-reflection is a necessity for those who desire sustained success and fulfillment.

Today, explore your calling. What is the question that you were born to answer? What is it that makes your soul sing? Entertain the impossible as being possible FOR YOU. Imagine your life without lack or limitation. Who would you be then? How would THAT PERSON be different than the person that you are today? What would that person do to be effective?

Success or sabotage? Success is shaped by the boundaries of our minds. As you think so shall ye be. We are its creator as well as the creation.

Is this gong to be an incredible day? What if we changed our ideas about today and thought of it as THE best day of our lives?

Live your Purpose.

Why are you here?

Today, I do not mean why are you reading this or why are you following me? I mean what is your purpose? Many will pause in uncertainty as if they missed the memo that would have undoubtedly instructed them on what they were here to do. While you wait for the instruction, precious time is passing. You are living your life by default, managing what arises, questioning the necessity of unwelcome circumstances and grasping for something to fill the void that you believe once contained some passion and purpose (or did it?).  

The reason that you are here today, reading what I am writing, is that you are in need of a healthy reminder.  This life is not a dress rehearsal. This day is never coming again. You are not here by accident or coincidence. Your presence on this planet, on this day, at this time is by design. You have a unique skill, gift, talent or being that is needed, right here, right now. You have been called. The question is not about whether you are the right person. You are the perfect person. The question, the ONLY question, is are you going to say "YES" to the life that is awaiting you? Are you going to say "yes" to living larger, brighter, bolder and more aligned with the yearning of your soul? Are you going to allow the inner voice of your skeptic, devil, ego to tempt you into inaction by telling you "not today," "not now," "not you"? Will you allow yourself to be carried down the black hole of uncertainty and perfectionism by awaiting greater clarity by wanting to be right instead of being effective? If you are awaiting a sign, this is it. God, your higher self, your intuition, your soul, your essence all speak in the same language. This is not the first time that you have heard this invitation. This is not the first time that you have wanted to say "yes," but have instead surrendered to "not now." This, however, is one of the last times that you may receive the message with such clarity that your soul stirs--silently screaming from a place of incredible unrest that today is the day. It is your day to decide. Who do you want to be? How do you want to walk on this planet? How do you wish to be remembered? How will you shine your light in a darkness that can only be illuminated by the gift that is yours to offer? If not you; then who? If not now, then when?

Success or sabotage?  Success has always been yours for the taking. When you realize that in combination with the fact your definition of success is all your own, sabotage is no longer a possibility.

Is this going to be an incredible day? With every day, there is a seed of greatness...it is not outside of you. It is you. It is waiting for you to allow it to come forth.

If you are feeling lost or disconnected from that which is yours to do on this planet, please know that I am here for you. That is my purpose (not because I am the man with the answers, but because I am the one with the questions). I have the skills, talents, expertise, and methodologies to remind you of that which (at some level) you already know. If you feel called to do so, contact me. I will help you.

Wake-up for Good.

You are not here to live small. You know that. 

You may have used your fears, doubts or insecurities in an attempt to escape your true desires, but you are called. There is a reason why you are dissatisfied. There is a reason why you feel unfulfilled. There is a reason why things never seem to work out for you. You have been lying to yourself by pretending that the life that you have is the one that you want. You have been cheating yourself by settling for what you can have instead of what you want.

The good news is that it is not too late. Where there is breath, there is possibility. But, like many things, the possibility comes with a caveat. There is a price for ignoring your soul.  When you are inspired by an incessant urge to follow your desire and you do not follow through, there are repercussions.  It may begin with the universe tapping on your shoulder, but, if ignored, it will end with an incredibly hard kick in the ass.  That which you previously found uncomfortable will become unbearable.  You are sabotaging your own joy and the universe is compassionately trying to remind you of that which you have fearfully ignored with tough love.

Today is your reminder. If this message is for you (which it probably is since you are reading this--that's no accident), consider this your wake-up call.  You deserve better and it is time to take the steps necessary to get it.  Rather than being consumed with how you are going to do it, begin by identifying the unlived dream. What is it that you would really like to be doing?  If your ego tells you that you do not know, that is a lie.  Open the door with the list. First, begin by listing all of the things that you do not want or can no longer tolerate (that should be easy). Then, go back and review. For each item on your list, ask, "if I don't want this, what DO I want?"  Write it down. This will open the door of your subconscious and enable the ideas to begin to flow.

Once you have identified your dream, commit to one thing that you can and will do to move you a step closer to your dream. Next week, commit to another, etc.  Take it slow. Remember, slow and steady wins the race!

Success or sabotage?  Success is achieved when you are aligned with your true calling.

Is this going to be an incredible day?  Answer the call. Explore your passion and remember what it feels like to experience joy again.

Fulfill your Purpose.

For what purpose did you awaken this morning? What is it that inspires you to move your body from the comfort of your bed?  Is it a sense of duty, obligation, routine or are you called to a higher purpose? Do you feel that your life has a meaning that you must fulfill?

The world can no longer afford the apathy of your unconscious mind. If you are going to step into this day, then do so with the gusto of a warrior, focused on your task. Your very breath awards you a sense of duty and reward that no other can sustain. You are unique in your experience, wisdom and passion. You have a "flavor" that is all your own. Embrace all that you have become and move without apology into the day that you have chosen. This day will never come again.

The only real sin is to choose to live below your potential. If you are awaiting inspiration, clarity or invitation, you are a slave of your own fairy tale. You have chosen your comfort over the sanctity of life and have cheated the world of a day's worth of your contributions.

Success or sabotage? Success is the result of conscious choice; it need not be grandiose or noteworthy in its design. It is simply the powerful product of intention.

Is this going to be an incredible day? The answer is in your heart, not in your head.