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Trust your Wisdom

Many of us find ourselves scrolling through endless Instagram and TikTok posts of motivational quotes, words of wisdom, clips of webinars by business gurus, or devouring self-help books in hopes that we will find the one secret formula for success. Shared wisdom and insight often provide powerful perspectives, insights, and inspiration. It can be very helpful for unlocking our inner wisdom. But, the truth is, we already possess everything that we need to succeed. 

Our world is inundated with advice from those who have proclaimed themselves to be experts or gurus, so it is easy for us to fall into the trap of seeking external validation and guidance for our journey. We are bombarded with messages telling us that we need to follow this strategy or emulate that successful person to achieve our goals. But, at the end of the day, the real key to our success lies not in external sources, but within our innate wisdom.

Success is not a destination; it is a journey that begins when we recognize the wealth of knowledge and potential that already resides within us. Think about it. We each have a lifetime of experience, lessons learned, and skills acquired that uniquely shape who we are today. This is our arsenal, our secret weapon for success.

As a life strategist for over 20 years, I offer insights, techniques, and strategies for enhancing life skills, overcoming obstacles, and achieving goals. I can provide the right questions to ponder and help guide others along the way. But, I am not (nor do I profess to be) the sole proprietor of wisdom. I am a provocateur and a facilitator. I am not the man with all of the answers; but, I am often the man with the right questions. My job is to help others unlock the treasure trove of wisdom that is already buried within them

So, how do we tap into this reservoir of wisdom and unleash our full potential? It begins with a shift in our mindset. Instead of constantly looking outside for answers, we need to turn inward and trust in our intuition and abilities. We don’t need to dismiss external advice altogether; we simply need to discern what resonates with us and integrate it into our own unique approach.  

To tap into our inner wisdom, we need to set aside quiet time for introspection and reflection. Journaling, meditation, or even sitting in contemplation are all powerful means of unlocking greater clarity. We can ask ourselves probing questions about our goals, values, and aspirations. What truly matters? For what are we passionate? What are our strengths and weaknesses? In what areas could we benefit from more growth? When we tune into that inner dialogue, we gain greater clarity and insight that no external sources can provide. 

We also need to learn to trust our instincts and embrace “failures” as opportunities. We often underestimate the power of our intuition, those gut feelings that guide us in the right direction. When we learn to listen to our inner voice, we begin to trust that it knows what is best for us. When setbacks inevitably occur, we can view them not as stepping stones on the path to success but instead of insurmountable roadblocks. Every failure carries with it valuable lessons and growth opportunities if we are willing to learn from them.

Success is never a solo journey. We should never be afraid to ask for guidance and feedback. We can seek out people who inspire and challenge us, those who believe in our potential and continue to encourage us to pursue our dreams. Engaging with others is crucial in unlocking our inner wisdom.

Success or sabotage? Success is not achieved in the pursuit of external validation or one-size-fits-all formulas; it is recognizing that the answers we seek are already within us.

Is this going to be an incredible day? We have everything we need to succeed and to make this day even better than yesterday.