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Manage your Fear.

Everything that we do is answer to a question in our minds (conscious or unconscious): is the pain of where you are greater than the discomfort of what it is going to take to move you out of (or beyond) it?  Every action is an act of speculation. We have no way of knowing the outcome of our actions. We evaluate risk based on past experiences and observation. We often act according to the counsel of fear. Fear will happily inform us when something we are about to do is worthy of note. It will take great effort to persuade us of its wisdom by reminding us of possible catastrophe and mishap prior to action ("you don't want to do that!").

Unfortunately, fear is a risk-adverse friend with limited information. He/she does not always act on the best behalf of its leader. It is our responsibility to manage fear so that it does not manage us.

What frightens you? What would you do if you had the courage today to do anything without hesitation? 

Walk through the morning as if it is the last day of your life. You are fearless and have NOTHING to fear. What will you do differently today? How does it feel to do it?

Success or sabotage?  If creating greater joy and success in your life is important, you must create your own path. Fear only has as much power as you allow it.

Is this going to be an incredible day?  If you shine the light in dark places, you will find more light, power and potential than you ever thought possible.