Are you proactive in the building of your life or do you wait until you must act or face dire circumstances?  The underlying issue is not the judgment about what you should or should not be doing; it is the energy that you may be losing as a result of YOUR judgment.  How often do you ignore the voice within that urges you to take action in a specific area of your life?  You repress the voice and go on with your life, but are left with an occasional burning guilt about how much better you would feel if you had followed your intuition. 

There are many stories of those who are miserable in their professional jobs. They go on working in the hopes that they will be laid off or fired so that they will be forced to seek other employment.  Do you really have to be kicked in the butt to make your life better? Remember, what flows in is in direct proportion to what flows out.  Put forth the effort and you will find yourself tapping into a hidden reservoir of energy.   

Success or sabotage?  Is your "roof" in need of repair? Are you going to wait for it to rain before you fix it? 

Is this going to be an incredible day?  What can you do RIGHT NOW, at this moment, to ensure a better day?