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Empower your Desire.

We are a society that baths in the negative. We seem to take pride in focusing on what "is not." It is easier to criticize than to be effective and solution-oriented. When you consistently focus and feed upon the negative, you are poisoning the very essence of your soul.  Like breeds like--if you pay attention to that which you do not want, you will attract more of the same. Have you ever wondered why days that you perceive as bad seem to become consistently worse? Have you heard the saying, 'when it rains, it pours'? Your thoughts create the unfolding of your day.

Why is this important? It is very simple. If you do not feel good, you will limit your effectiveness and your success. If nothing else, people will not want to be around you. Do you enjoy being around people that are constantly negative?

Before you begin to point the finger at those in your life that may fit this profile, I invite you to look inward. Today, I want you to notice how often you think negative thoughts and speak critical words. When you catch yourself, think about what you want instead. If you do not think you can maintain your focus for an entire day, do it for one hour. You will probably be amazed at the number of negative thoughts that run through your head in any given hour. It is toxic.

Success or sabotage? Success does not begin with your business plan; it begins (and ultimately ends) with you.

Is this going to be an incredible day? How much are you willing to do to allow it?